Process for healing a broken relation

 

^{Two point theory towards the healing of a broken relation:}

^{11. Accept them for who they are.}

  2. Listen to them without judgment.

^{Accept them for who they are:}

^{May it be father, mother, sister, brother, spouses, or any one… we have to accept people's mistakes just as they are. Life comes with different situations, different people have different caliber of delivering things.}

^{The level of patience and perseverance also varies among people. Mostly, we tend to judge our relations too quick and fall into the prey of losing someone’s trust or love in the process.} 

^{The important thing is to remember that the acceptance of someone’s actions, as they are, and not judging them on the basis of our own perception or thinking, is the key to creating a space to get the dying or dead relation thrive.}

^{Listen To them without judgment:}

^{Listening without judgment in any given relationship is really important. Listening to them and their views or perception of things without judging them anf comparing them with the standards of our so-called norms.} 

^{This way, we can put the gear of that person’s perception on a positive terrain. And not push them away and let them get into the darkness, all alone, on their own.}

^{Only thing a person who has wronged himself wants is to be heard, without judgment and with the gesture of full acceptance.}

^{So if we put ourselves into other people’s shoes, we can really well understand the mindset of the person’s psychological plight and be close to the person; as a result; saving the other person, from going into the ditch of despair for good.}