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How to avoid burn-out while homeschooling?

The burning question that all homeschoolers often have in their heads is how to go about homeschooling routine happily and how to not wear out themselves along with their kiddos? There are some steps that you can take care of while having a homeschool day that will get you to pass through it effortlessly and pleasurably. Having a Concrete plan: if you don't have a plan a day before I bet, your day and your behavior will manifest it. you will end up exhausted and not contented with what you got done on a particular day. here is the daily planner: I guarantee you fill it up today evening and your HS day tomorrow will feel way more peaceful and smooth.  you should copy it down in your notebook or download it. whatever works for you and keep filling it every evening or night for the coming HS day. it will change your life for the better. Prepare for it: if you think you have everything in place a day before HS day, think again... because it happens with me all the time when I think tha...

Have you been victim of Digital Junk?

Have you ever been in a repeating cycle of Digital overload?  If yes, let us know how did you manage to overcome your suffering? Your participation and support will be appreciated. Post your comment here or share your views at sarakhab24@gmail.com

دنیا جنت نہیں بن سکتی۔۔

اگر میں آپ سے یہ کہوں کہ یہ زندگی ایک امتحان مسلسل ہے تو آپ کو اس جملے سے کوئی فرق نہیں پڑنے والا۔ کیونکہ زندگی میں آپ یہ جملہ اتنا زیادہ سن چکے ہوتے ہیں کہ اسکی گہرائی اور افادیت سے بے حس ہو جاتے ہیں۔   مگر ایک خاص چیز کی طرف آپ کی توجہ دلانا چاہوں گی کہ سورہ عنکبوت میں اللہ فرماتے ہیں کیا لوگ یہ سمجھتے ہیں کہ وہ صرف اتنا کہنے پر چھوڑ دئے جائیں گے کہ " ہم ایمان لائے اور انکی آزمائش نہیں ہوگی" ؟   اس سورہ کا زندگی کے ایک مسلسل امتحان ہونے سے کیا تعلق ہے؟   یہ سورہ شروع ہوتی ہے " الم" سے جسکے بارے میں ہم یہ جانتے ہیں کہ اس کہ معنی اللہ کہ سوا کوئی نہیں جانتا اور اللہ تعالی نے قصداً انسانوں سے اسکے معنی پوشیدہ کھے ہیں۔   اس لفظ "الم" سے ہمیں دو نقطوں کی طرف اشارہ ملتا ہے ایک یہ کہ دنیا میں ہمارے ساتھ ہونے والی ہر چیز کی منطق ، معنی اور گہرائی کا ہمیں علم ہونا ضروری نہیں ہے۔۔۔ اور دوسرا یہ   اس کہ معنی کو جاننا ہماری موجودہ زندگی کو گزارنے کہ مقصد میں مدد نہیں دیتا۔   اس لئے ہمیں ہر چیز کی مصلحت میں گھسنا نہیں چاہئے، اللہ نے جو جیسے دیا ہے اسے قبو...

Process for healing a broken relation

  Two point theory towards the healing of a broken relation: 11.  Accept them for who they are.   2. Listen to them without judgment. Accept them for who they are: May it be father, mother, sister, brother, spouses, or any one… we have to accept people's mistakes just as they are. Life comes with different situations, different people have different caliber of delivering things. The level of patience and perseverance also varies among people. Mostly, we tend to judge our relations too quick and fall into the prey of losing someone’s trust or love in the process.  The important thing is to remember that the acceptance of someone’s actions, as they are, and not judging them on the basis of our own perception or thinking, is the key to creating a space to get the dying or dead relation thrive. Listen To them without judgment: Listening without judgment in any given relationship is really important. Listening to them and their views or perception of things wi...

How will future look like

The nature of war changed With the emergence of nuclear weapons, there are no big wars on earth. No state has the guts to face the consequences. So,  The nature of war has changed exponentially.  the future is going to see only technological warfare.  The algorithm as a tactic of warfare: They have created algorithms that understand an individual more than he understands himself.  Facebook algorithms can predict and manipulate the desires and opinions of a person just by analyzing his likes, shares, and activities; that have been recorded since its usage; in the form of Data.  Two things are needed to get to individual psychology. One is biology. The second is computing powers. Government and organizations will have this advantage with the help of algorithms; they will be able to predict your actions and your thoughts. When this starts to happen, algorithms will have enormous power over humans. The algorithm will be new religion a new God. Algorithms will have t...

How to Teach conceptual Emaaniyaat to kids!

Here is an example from my four-year-old's scrapbook. she likes doing some scrapping so I thought to use this interest to inculcate some conceptual ideology into her.  Do you know children learn better and retain information longer if we teach them through visuals and through images?  she is not good at rot learning. when I try rot learning with kids, I notice that learning becomes burdensome and hectic for both kids and me. instead using visual aids boost their interest as well as their memory retention.  Since we are not homeschoolers from our own childhood, we tend to keep sliding into trying our learning to match. our old school model, but I'm happy, at least we are trying.  I intend to follow this approach in the future. Inshallah...  What about you? Here you go:

How to become a limitless version of yourself

Lately, I was thinking to write from my personal experience, on the topic of “Digital Toxification”, to highlight its poisonous stings on our lives and how it’s putting immense pressure on people of all ages.  Since I have also been the victim of this " Digital poison" for some time, I managed to get hold of it sooner. I'm gonna share what steps I followed to nip the evil in the bud (Check Golden tips). Digital World had put me in a position where I started thinking that I was doing low on my life and lacking behind a great deal; that realization turns into the first milestone on the journey towards anxiety, adding salt to already suppressed depression. at first, it was difficult to follow through those steps, but I said to myself that it's worth the effort when I saw the results. since those steps really changed my day and night for the better. I got my brain back and literally learned to use my brain; which was previously, hijacked.  I got my confidence back in my...